I've been using that nickname for so long now (and it's so close to my actual name) that I don't ever think to separate the two in my mind. Is the me that blogs the same me that speaks and acts? Most of the time I'd say so, but since I've had very few friends in life that both see me in the day to day and online... I have no objective opinion to be sure.
Well, that picture is definitely not of me! At least the location is true?
When I first read A Rape in Cyberspace I thought that the women who felt violated by another MOO user were reacting a bit in the extreme - and yet the young girl who took her life over a fake MySpace account had my complete sympathy. It's easy to say that someone older should take the Internet with a grain of salt, but who are we to judge the openness of others?
I have done roleplaying for so long now that distancing myself from my character has become second nature. Understanding the drama that surrounds online identity crisis and "what's right and wrong here?" seems simple. But then... today I was reminded of one character I played for a brief period of time in my life. I had a fake Twitter account I used to play with others on the site, and before I knew it?
I was using the fake twitter more than my own. My thoughts, my feelings were being channeled through this fictional person, and when something bad happened to that character that I wasn't expecting? I cried.
The Internet is so much a part of our daily lives now that it might as well be a true extension of reality, hyperbole and dramatics and hurt feelings along with it. If we don't have a moral code for our online behavior, what kind of message are we sending to the generations growing up with Internet access 24/7?